I once heard this and I couldn't disagree more.But if I think about it..maybe it's not so false as I thought.Because people do leave;they follow their dreams and their destinies.Some people stay,some go.
If I look back in my life,I realise one thing.The most important people,friends I had/have,left. That's how I learned how it's like to miss someone.The big "I miss you" feeling.And sometimes I wish it wouldn't be needed to feel this.But feeling that you miss someone makes that person important in your life.Or it makes me realise how important that person is to me.I don't want this post to be a sad one or one full of regrets...it's just a way to remember my friends and what they mean to me and how important they were in my life and still are because there was a tie once that kept us together.And some ties cannot be broken.
The first important person that left was Nelu.He was one of my best friends ever.The person who came among us and was just like a glue.He put as all together like he was making a tour around each one of us with a glue and then we were a group of friends.And I loved it.Nelu is popular and charming.And he has something I envy him for.But I envy him and respect him..and admire him I could say.Although he was popular and he had looots of friends,he made time for each and every one of us ,to listen to us and just get to know the real us...and that matters.We had so much fun and I cried so many times of too much laughter when he was around..these are things I can't forget.After he left...that glue was just gone and our little group of friends vanished slowly.Nelu was the thing that kept us together.I miss you,Nelu!
The most important person that left,was Emma.And here I could write pages and pages.My best friend since I was 13.She put up with all the stupid things I've done..and I know I hurt her once..but it's like a dream that's forgotten now.Emma is the person that really knows the real me.A true friend who knows me without saying a word.And her presence here is something I will always miss.Because there are so many times that I feel like talking to someone and there is no one around to whom I can say the things only she knows.I miss talking on the phone hundreds of minutes with her and going out every weekend and having here sleeping over and laughing.Now I barely use the phone and my weekends are spent mostly in the house.And I miss her sitting next to me at church(instead of putting my purse on the chair she used to have^^).And I miss her wise opinions that kept me many times from doing stupid things or opened my eyes to see where I am wrong.But she is still my best friend ever and it will always be like that.Cause even if you're in Germany,we are much more then tied together and I feel you close even if you're not cause you're deep down in my heart:)Oh and about things I admire in you-again I could write a book about this.I mean..there are so many things I like and admire in the way you are...that I just feel honored that I'm your friend and I get to learn from the best;))
Next are the people that are right here close,but I feel them very far,and even if I get to see them,I miss them.First it's for sure Dani.And Andreea. People I know that have so much value and so much talents inside them.And even if our ties don't brake,they loosen sometimes.But deep down inside..these are the persons I know I can trust and I know I can always ask for their advice and I know the feeling is mutual.Dani is the person who just knows to encourage me every time.He is wise and he told me things that I remember every time I feel down.Andreea was always the super star,the girl with a strong personality.
And of course,last but not least.The people that came in my life,for just a few weeks,but I feel I know them for ever.And that they were in my life for a long time.Steph(the girl i like to "get lost" with^^) and Yann(the guy who makes me smile^^).I feel that they know me and they got to know me in a few weeks like others maybe don't.And I feel I know them too,especially Steph^^People that I miss every single day and I wish they were closer:P But I admire you two for your talents and for the way you are.
This is getting too long lol.My conclusion is that missing is not such a bad feeling cause it makes all of you precious to me.And I am keeping you in my heart even if you're not close:D love,love,love you:D
If I look back in my life,I realise one thing.The most important people,friends I had/have,left. That's how I learned how it's like to miss someone.The big "I miss you" feeling.And sometimes I wish it wouldn't be needed to feel this.But feeling that you miss someone makes that person important in your life.Or it makes me realise how important that person is to me.I don't want this post to be a sad one or one full of regrets...it's just a way to remember my friends and what they mean to me and how important they were in my life and still are because there was a tie once that kept us together.And some ties cannot be broken.
The first important person that left was Nelu.He was one of my best friends ever.The person who came among us and was just like a glue.He put as all together like he was making a tour around each one of us with a glue and then we were a group of friends.And I loved it.Nelu is popular and charming.And he has something I envy him for.But I envy him and respect him..and admire him I could say.Although he was popular and he had looots of friends,he made time for each and every one of us ,to listen to us and just get to know the real us...and that matters.We had so much fun and I cried so many times of too much laughter when he was around..these are things I can't forget.After he left...that glue was just gone and our little group of friends vanished slowly.Nelu was the thing that kept us together.I miss you,Nelu!
The most important person that left,was Emma.And here I could write pages and pages.My best friend since I was 13.She put up with all the stupid things I've done..and I know I hurt her once..but it's like a dream that's forgotten now.Emma is the person that really knows the real me.A true friend who knows me without saying a word.And her presence here is something I will always miss.Because there are so many times that I feel like talking to someone and there is no one around to whom I can say the things only she knows.I miss talking on the phone hundreds of minutes with her and going out every weekend and having here sleeping over and laughing.Now I barely use the phone and my weekends are spent mostly in the house.And I miss her sitting next to me at church(instead of putting my purse on the chair she used to have^^).And I miss her wise opinions that kept me many times from doing stupid things or opened my eyes to see where I am wrong.But she is still my best friend ever and it will always be like that.Cause even if you're in Germany,we are much more then tied together and I feel you close even if you're not cause you're deep down in my heart:)Oh and about things I admire in you-again I could write a book about this.I mean..there are so many things I like and admire in the way you are...that I just feel honored that I'm your friend and I get to learn from the best;))
Next are the people that are right here close,but I feel them very far,and even if I get to see them,I miss them.First it's for sure Dani.And Andreea. People I know that have so much value and so much talents inside them.And even if our ties don't brake,they loosen sometimes.But deep down inside..these are the persons I know I can trust and I know I can always ask for their advice and I know the feeling is mutual.Dani is the person who just knows to encourage me every time.He is wise and he told me things that I remember every time I feel down.Andreea was always the super star,the girl with a strong personality.
And of course,last but not least.The people that came in my life,for just a few weeks,but I feel I know them for ever.And that they were in my life for a long time.Steph(the girl i like to "get lost" with^^) and Yann(the guy who makes me smile^^).I feel that they know me and they got to know me in a few weeks like others maybe don't.And I feel I know them too,especially Steph^^People that I miss every single day and I wish they were closer:P But I admire you two for your talents and for the way you are.
This is getting too long lol.My conclusion is that missing is not such a bad feeling cause it makes all of you precious to me.And I am keeping you in my heart even if you're not close:D love,love,love you:D
thank you lala... you speak to nicely of me. but know that the feelings are mutual...and it is true people leave, friend leave but they always remain in our hearts....
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let's take it from another point of view... they don't leave...they follow their own natural way... and unfortunately, it's not close to our way... we all go our roads... but it's not because we want a change...it's just how it has to be... and yes, it's sad that we loose our friends and the ones we cherish... but we don't actually loose them, other great people gain them...we we gain other great people...and so on... leaving and going away will always hurt...but it's usually for the better...at least for one...and for the other it's a reason to be joyful, for your friend's new road... i don't know, it kind of sounds like you shouldn't attach, though it is not what i meant... and you are perfectly right, when someone is gone you realize what it meant
ReplyDeleteeram prin clasa a 11a cand proful de germana m-a intrebat daca nu vreau sa scriu pentru un concurs. tema eseului era: dupa joc e inainte de joc. am stat si m-am uitat ore in sir la propozitia asta scurta, dar n-am reusit sa o inteleg. nu stiam ce ar putea insemna. nu-i gaseam nici un sens. ...pana azi! azi, dupa ce m-am intors singura acasa si am vazut camera goala, mi-am dat seama ce vroia sa insemne. si mi-am dat seama ca "dupa joc" nu are cum sa fie egal cu "inainte de joc".dupa joc e fie satisfactie, fie gol. jocul a fost saptamana asta. dupa joc a ramas doar gol... si de data asta persoana, care a plecat, nu am fost eu, ci tu.
ReplyDeletee atata liniste acum aici... nici nu stiu cu ce sa incep. de unde sa incep.
toti plecam la un moment dat. toti ne indepartam. ne pierdem intr-un aeroport imens. si ce ramane e doar speranta ca intr-o zi lucrurile vor redeveni cum au fost odata...
(de fiecare data cand ma gandesc la un aeroport incep sa plang...o sa scriu despre asta odata:D)
ok. poate e prea dramatic ce am scris...dar e golul din mine ce urla acum :'(
SO TRUE! they come and go the BASTARDS! :P La inceput iti pare rau...ti-e dor de ei dar pe urma de obisnuiesti cu situatia. Totul se schimba! Crede-ma! Si prietenia ta cu Ema se va schimba! De cand am plecat eu de la Sibiu s-a destramat tot! Asa mi-a zis Ioana, eu earam singura chestie care le tinea pe toate unite. Anul asta am simtit cum am pierdut foarte multi prieteni. They all come and go. Ai sa vezi.
ReplyDeletedeci eu sunt andre super star,nu ai gresit cand ai zis asta:)))ma bucur k m-ai mentionat stiu ca ma iubesti si eu pe tine:)ai commenturi numa de oameni destepti,da al meu nu ii .se observa
ReplyDeleteSeve prietenia mea cu Emma nu o sa se schimbe pentru ca situatiile nu se pot compara deloc!:D
ReplyDeletesingura diferenta e ca noi nu suntem grup. suntem doar doua...si e o diferenta, ce la un moment dat va face diferenta! if u know what i mean:p
ReplyDeletemi-a luat ceva pana sa imi dau seama de unde provine titlul:D dar acum stiu...
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